Lately I've heard so many people make this assumption, and its ridiculously hard to get them to understand that a lot of times play doesn't include sex, doesn't end in sex, and might not even be sexual. 50 shades stereotypes are are people think of nowadays. Even people in this group seem to not realize that BDSM is not inherently sexual. This is especially hard in my personal life since my owner is gray/ace, and people don't understand how we can have a D/s dynamic and it is about power exchange, not just getting out rocks off. Has anybody else dealt with this??