Are hormones an excuse to be a bitch to your man?

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I just think it’s ridiculous when women use pms hormones as an excuse to be rude to their SO. If you know it’s your “hormones” then bite your tongue. I’m sure if he was bitching at you for no reason you wouldn’t like it. I see women complain all the time because their man is stressed and treating them poorly.

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I'm pregnant, and while it's not an excuse when I've lashed out at my hubby it's usually me not even realizing that I'm being bitchy till after the words have left my mouth. He is very understanding that it's not "me" and I've always apologized afterwards even though he says I don't have to.

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Absolutely not. My mom taught me this when I started my period. She said hormones are never an excuse to treat people badly. We're still responsible for our actions. And she's right!

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Ugh same. It’s so annoying seeing these posts where women are like “ugh my pms is horrible. My man gets so upset and idk why. He needs to know this is how women are.” Like what? No. Not all women. Some women know how to control their emotions and know how to bite their tongue. Also, I don’t expect to be pampered during my period like some people. It’s a part of life. You’ll be fine. You’re just shedding. Go buy some model and chocolate. You’re fine.
I understand some women have a real difficult time with their menstrual cycles and they have mind boggling pain. This is not directed toward them.

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I give my man a heads up when I’m pms’ing or if I feel like my hormones/mood are all off that day. I’m like look, please, just try to understand how I’m feeling today. Sometimes its successful and other days I’m acting like a chihuahua towards him. Ugh! Life.

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Nope! I USE to be and I have learned over the years that its unacceptable. When I am moody I give a warning. Hey, I'm moody.. my levels are up, dont pester or bother me right now... just load the dishwasher right the first time, ok?! Cool. The end.

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14% of us are trash 😂😂 #ivotedyes

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It's not an excuse but could be a reason you are bitchy

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We have never had a fight but when I'm on period or pregnant I can get pretty moody. However, due to my personality the second I say something rude/harsh I immediately start crying because I'm so upset I said something rude to him. He thinks it's funny for some reason lol

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For years I always thought most women are just crazy or mean! I never got mood swings or pms like that! Once I finally got off the pill last year to start trying I could FEEL it happening and had no control. I was mortified. But my years of being relatively controlled on the pill gave me the insight to see it coming. 
My hubby knows I can’t control it so I just warn him. I say babe it’s not you, I’m just in a bad mood. And he knows to just be cool or leave me be for a while LOL.

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They are not an excuse but that doesn’t stop it from happening. A lot of times we don’t realize it til after we go off

Are hormones an excuse to be a bitch to your man?

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