Let me just say this first: I love my roommate. She’s so sweet and has become one of my best friends. It’s really easy to live with her because she’s low maintenance, very accommodating, and thoughtful of me. When making our roommate contract in the beginning of the year, we said “no sex and no drugs in the room.” I was a virgin and wasn’t in any kind of relationship so the “no sex” thing didn’t worry me. Little did I know I’d become kinda whorish and end up hooking up with some guys. I would work around her schedule and do it when she was already out so I wouldn’t have to kick her out. I make sure that everything stays on my side of the room and that I clean up afterwards. I never told her about any of it and I feel guilty for going behind her back like that. I try to be as good of a roommate as I can otherwise, but I know what I’ve done is shitty.