The main chick has a lot of perks including being claimed and maybe some gifts and holidays. But she also has a man who is cheating and lying to her. She could have a family and have to deal with the issue of the betrayal. The side chick gets sex dates cute messages and doesn’t have the attachment the main chick has. She gets off Scott free, not necessarily a side chick but a female dating in general. Doesn’t have to think about family and him “cheating” gets the attention etc maybe even able to go out. Can still be free and see other woman. She doesn’t have her future tied to this guy and so fourth. This has been a question on my mind. I’m not saying being a side chick is a good option but in the grand scheme of things someone will be the side chick so why does it matter who it is. Also referring to just dating guys as opposed to a relationship where love is involved and feelings etc. just want to get some views to see what people say.