I feel that there is an issue in my relationship. I have said something to my husband about this. I have said that we don’t spend enough time together, that I want alone time with him(have three kids).

I have been asking to go out to dinner just us so we can reconnect. (Him working, me full time student).

He says next week, next week, next week.

Than I find out that he goes to the bar with his friend after work. Because he had extra time to spare after work.

I flipped out.

He is choosing his friend over his wife.

Does it sound like he doesn’t want to work on us and I should just start planning on leaving?