losing my vcard

soooo a few days ago i went to my boyfriend of 4 months house and spent the night and we had been kissing and he fingered me and ate me out and all that.

then he asked what i wanted to do and i said i wanted him to take my virginity and he was like okay. so he pulled it out and put on a condom. and when he went to put it in. it just wouldn’t go in😭like at all. and i was wet. but it just wouldn’t go in. can someone explain to me why tf he couldn’t get it in? he said it was because i was too tight but isn’t everyone as a virgin?