Started dating this guy and he has a kinky streak a mile long. So far it has been a little over a month. We talk about everything and for hours to begin with so i know he has fuzzy and plain cuffs, restraints, rope, bondage tape, a flogger, a harness and god only knows what else. It was our 4th or 5th date last night and he will not let me have it. We will make out then stop and he says I "you need to be a good girl before you get all this" or something to that effect. Or we'll be all over each other then decide to go for a walk for an hour. The most we've done is he's gone down on me once by surprise which he said was "to get me to calm down" which, obviously did not happen.

I have a bit of experience in this world but not nearly as much as he has. Not sure what he's trying to achieve but it's so frustrating and at the same time so deliciously hot. Most guys don't take their time but this one seems fine with the wait. Idk.