confession time!💦

I've only dated about 3 guys & have had flings & stuff with others, but basically with everyone I've been with I've never actually finished during sex😅 I have a really high sex drive yet I haven't been able to finish with anyone I've been with so i feel like I'm missing out😩 Even if I'm really into the guy & the sex, it still just doesn't happen. There was this one guy that was reallyyy good at sex, obviously knew what he was doing, & did all the right things including all the kinky shit I like😂 but I still didn't end up finishing. Any suggestions or clarity on why this might be?