Hello! So I’m about a 34DD-36DD ( I don’t even know anymore ) for my bra size.

I’ve always worn bras to bed, I would wear them 24/7 because it’s what felt comfortable. Recently, I’ve stopped wearing bras to bed because I’ve read somewhere that going braless makes your breast tissue stronger and therefore it holds the breasts up better without relying on a bra ( or something like that I forgot ). Plus, this employee at Victoria’s Secret told me it’s better to have the breasts breathe and it’s good to take it off at night, she told me it was healthier.

So I was like alright imma not wear a bra to bed then, this way my breasts won’t be so reliant on bras.

My mom found out that I was doing this awhile ago. I told her about what I had heard. And she was basically like “ok u do u.”

I have two houses that I switch between ( since my parents are separated ). I went braless to bed for awhile, and then I got self- conscious because A. My mom told me my breasts were gonna sag/ told me they already were, and B. My dad could see the shape of my breasts kind of since i had no bra on ( not sure if he even noticed but like he’s a guy so I wasn’t 100% comfortable with that ). I started wearing my “nighttime bras” over at my dad’s house, which were basically bras that I never wore in the daytime because they were push-up and had excess padding ( which I personally don’t like in a bra for me ), but they were soft and I didn’t want to just not use them.

At my mom’s house she kept pointing out that my breasts were gonna be saggy when I got older, and I guess I kind of noticed in the mirror that they were kind of sagging down? But I don’t know if they were like that before, or if it was part of the process. I was sure that my research was right so I continued to go braless to bed at my mom’s house, I mean I would wear a skimpy one ( kind of resembling a training bra? But very weak ) with no underwire that did nothing for me but covered the nipple, this way my mom thought I was wearing one. So I basically went unsupported at night.

I’ve continued to do this.

Today, I couldn’t find my skimpy bra at my mom’s house, so i went without one because it made no difference. At the dinner table she noticed and repeated herself, only this time she said her friend agreed with her and pointed it out to her the other day when I WAS wearing a bra.

She sent me the picture that her friend took and saw that my breasts were apparently sagging.

It’s this one.

( Idk why I look a lil mad in this pic )

Ok so look at my boobies and tell me if u think they seem like they’re beginning to sag.

I’ve noticed after I went braless that they did hang low just a little bit. I thought that was simply because of their size, I mean they ARE carrying weight and it would be odd if they were extremely perky and high up because of their proportions, no?

Anywho my mother said that at her age hers were way higher than that, but then again, she wasn’t as nearly big as me, so of course they would be higher if there wasn’t as much there to weigh down. She was almost “flat.”

I’m only in high school.

( Also I have stretch marks BUT they don’t mean anything relating to this topic because they’re from a few years ago when my boobs just magically sprouted out of nowhere )

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Sorry for kind of rambling cause’ I know it’s a lot to read to answer one post.

But,

Do you think they’re starting to sag?

Do you think I should start wearing a bra again to bed?

Was what I found online correct?

Is this normal for boobs my size? For them to naturally be like that?

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( P.s. Can I just say that I am so jealous of smaller breasts? I’ve always wanted to wear one of those cute bralettes that everyone seems to love. )