HELP!!!

i’m 16 married and have a kid. i did a my heritage dna test because i’m adopted and the dna results pulled up that the guy i was told was my father isn’t. so my bio dad just found out about me yesterday. he knew nothing about me for 16 years. my parents that adopted me doesn’t really want me to meet him and go hang out with his family. is it wrong of them or me for wanting to meet him and get to know my bio family?