is this normal lol?

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is it weird that sometimes my boyfriend and i struggle when it comes to figuring out what we can do when we hang out ? sometimes his mom doesn't want any company over so when i go to him, we have to find something to do and its a struggle because we aren't rich and you have to pay to do pretty much anything😅 
any suggestions?

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When my husband and I started dating we would just drive around. There were these pretty house and we would go there and just talk. You can do literally anything

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Random drives are always good, and provides a great opportunity to jam out to music together a d be dorks or just talk. Going for walks can also be great if you have a good place near you.

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Walk, park (if its open), sitting outside, joyride (if you have a car), playing board games, playing card games, playing video games, nature watching, watching a movie or show, cooking, baking, drawing, painting, doing puzzles (puzzle book or standard puzzles out of pieces). 
I could go on to more serious activities to do. Things that involve a future together and planning, like house hunting and all that, but i am not sure where your relationship is in terms of old or new. My and my fiancé have problems sometimes coming up with fun things to do that doesn't involve going out, traveling or spending money so i understand the true struggle of sitting there like "uh...now what?". We end up play fighting/wrestling almost every time. Then someone gets hurt and we stop lol 😅😅

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You can probably find a TV projector for pretty cheap, you can hook it up to a laptop or you can stream it from another device and get a bedsheet in the backyard and get some blankets and pillows and you have your own little movie theater in the back, with some Christmas lights if you want to white ones, make your own little movie theater see if you could stream your Netflix or something or your home on-demand stuff and just sit and chill hang out eat some junk food and watch a movie you aren’t doing anything wrong and she can keep an eye on you if she really needs to. Make the backyard your little oasis, get a big rug to sit on pillows and blankets or some chairs, have your own little movie night in the backyard. Bring some board games outside maybe a table, some parents are very insecure and don’t trust their children to be alone in the bedroom obviously and they feel more comfortable being able to see them,. Another thing going to the park, playing sports together frisbee soccer, I do things that you did when you were little play on the swings fly a kite blow bubbles play with sidewalk chalk lay down and make an outline of each other, whatever and just have fun together, doesn’t matter what you are doing. Take the dog for a walk or go to the dog park or just sitting out front of the house talking, I know them all in the movie theaters aren’t open but you make your own, you probably can get a little mini projector for like 20 bucks on Amazon or eBay I will see them popping up on Facebook. We just got to get creative. Take a trip to Petsmart and look at all the animals, I know it’s not the zoo but somethings better than nothing, walk around target or Walmart or the grocery store, at least there’s air-conditioning, and you guys can do a little shopping, I know it’s not the mall but somethings better than nothing,. Try make up on him I’m sure he won’t mind, paint each others fingernails wanna be like one of your girlfriends, and he really cares about you he won’t mind, make notes back-and-forth instead of text messaging leave a little cute notes for each other around and if the mother finds them, at least they aren’t anything that he would get in trouble for. Keep things as innocent as you can for as long as you can, once things get complicated and sex comes into the picture it’s hard to come back from that and him not expect it every time,￼￼￼ I love days when we just kiss and cuddle in the car. Sex doesn’t always have to happen, you can just hang out and be like friends. Just go out for ice cream or even if it’s at the grocery store and just get some ice cream and have it in the car or if a Place is open near you. Just taking a walk holding hands. Decorate the back yard with white Xmas lights and some citronella candles to keep the bugs away and just lay down and look up at the stars and talk. Just because you hang out doesn’t mean anything has to happen sexually. Take things slow. If this guy is really into you, he will stick around and not pressure you, if he pressured to you, then you know that’s all he’s after. Take things slow and really get to know someone, everyone puts on their best face in the beginning, nobody says hi these are my faults and this is what’s wrong with me and this is what I’m gonna do to you and this is how things are going to end. no everyone puts on their best face in the beginning, no one says hi I’m controlling or jealous or envious or insecure or abusive and I have anger issues etc. You usually do not see their faults until later down the road once you’re out of the honeymoon phase, unless things are bad from the beginning. And you just got regard red flags, because you don’t wanna be alone. Never do that, always know that you deserve better, and it’s OK to be alone, never tolerate crap, because it teaches them that’s acceptable behavior and they will keep doing it and it will get worse. Be safe and be careful and have fun

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Sameee
We usually go to the park a lot. It’s cheap and easy to just talk on the swings or walk around

is this normal lol?

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