Is my bleeding normal?

So I recently had sex for the second time 4 days ago and I bled. He couldn’t find my hole but when he did it wouldn’t stay in. Mentally, I was very into it even tho he didn’t really play with my pussy but I guess I was too tight? Anyway, when I wipe after using the restroom I see a faint brown on the toilet paper as the night after I kept wiping blood (not a loot). Ive never fingered my self or used a toy on myself so I’m not sure if I want to try now to find out if it’s painful. I really wanted to enjoy it but I didn’t :/ right after I kept thinking (and still do) about whether something is physically wrong with me? Also, I’m supposed to get my period in a week so I don’t think it’s that?