🚨"We need to talk"🚨 ADVICE HELP

Mo

I'm sorry this is kinda long, but I really need help! ⚠️

Hey you guys! I've been talking with this guy for the past 2mons. We went to elementary school together and lost connection, but reconnected on IG in Aug. He's really nice and I like him. He always comes pick me up when we go out or hangout with his friends (introduced me to them & he doesn't have to pick me up b/c I have a 🚗, but he always insist b/c he wants to be a provider and a man) and he always buys food for the both of us when he doesn't have to (and sometimes I'll pay for us too since he does it all the time).

I'm so used to being independent and on my own so all this is new to me b/c other guys I've talked to never treated me like this. But idk if he likes/is interested in me the same way.

Conversations are somewhat dry sometimes, I always ask him what he's interested in so I can get to know him more, just surprised him with an amazing bday gift 2wks ago & sometimes his fav snacks when we visit each other and call him out the blue just to say hey and check on him (like I do with my other friends), but he hasn't done the same for me.

Also I just recently lost my v-card to him last month, which I don't regret b/c he's nice to me and really cool plus I knew what I was doing lol. However (here comes the kicker😅), he is still talking to and sleeping with other females. I know we're not official, but it really bothers me b/c I really like him. He knows I'm dating to marry eventually and surprisingly he's still around so I'm confused 🤔

He also has Tinder and Hinge on his phone. And yesterday, he was talking about making an OnlyFans account, but he needs to find people to have sex with on camera w/o showing their face. Like "mf did you really just say that in front of me"🤬

I'm going to see him tomorrow and I have to have this talk with him so y'all have any advice b/c I need to get this off my chest and I'm usually not the one to do this, but it needs to be said b/c I'm looking out for myself, my health & my feelings.