I haven’t had the experience of orgasming during sex and I’ve been told it’s because I don’t masturbate. I never got into masturbating when I was younger like other girls my age and now that I’m 20 I completely don’t know how to get off. I just have sex via penetration and that’s the end of it. Idk I want sex to be more pleasurable because I’m dry whenever it starts and I have to use lube to help the process along. I hate that I’ve begun to dread sex because afterward I’m sore and hurting. Then I have to keep being the one rejecting sex because of the uncomfortable feelings I associate with it. Does anyone have any tips on how not to be sore afterward and enjoy the feelings of being penetrated?