Looking for some advice, so me and my boyfriend are having our second child, and we often find our self fighting and arguing over his sexual wants and needs, he says I’m lazy and it makes him feel unwanted because I don’t have sex with him all the time, it’s not because I’m not down, but sometimes my body really does hurt, other times if we are fighting I can’t bring myself to just do it, other times I’m just not for it, however he says that it’s how he feels loved attractive and wanted, he also states that I never do anything even tho I ride him, or touch him, or even u know orally try to do stuff for him, it’s really a big issue and it’s starting to really affect how I feel about my self in the relationship, I love him and want him to feel loved, wanted, and attractive but I just don’t always wanna have sex with him. And idk what to do,