What do I do? 🤦🏽‍♀️

Question

My fiancé and I have sex on the regular and it feels good but not I guess, fantastic? Well he used a 8 1/2in dildo on me tonight and I had 3 orgasms back to back within 4 minutes. When we were talking later in the night about it he seemed discouraged that it was able to get me off but he’s only been able to maybe twice vaginally but countless times orally. What can I do to help this? Or make our sex more pleasureable for me?

Answer

Do what you need to do to “get yours” and make sure your BF “gets his” (which I’m sure he does) and enjoy the experience safely

Answer

There are women who can't come vaginally at all. I get that maybe he's feeling inadequate that you had such a strong sexual response to the 81/2 inch dildo but at the end of the day, he used it on you so he used it to make you come. I'd imagine a lot of orgasms that occur aren't strictly from penis in vagina. Make using toys fun, get some for him too that you can use on him or with him. Assure him that he does it for you but there are different types of orgasms and different ways to orgasm and this is just one of them and that you want to explore the different ways together and potentially have better sex. Hopefully hell be on board. Have fun with each other and enjoy it.

What do I do? 🤦🏽‍♀️

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