So the last time I had sex with my ex, the 13th, we used a new toy I had bought.

He had used it then put it somewhere.

Weeks later, we are no longer together and I can not find it for the life of me.

Part of me wonders if I accidentally threw it away, put it back in the bag to clean it and then tossed it, accidentally gave it to him, or if he just put it somewhere I can’t find.

Should I ask him? Or just tear apart my room?