My partner and I have been wanting to try anal and have even went as far as getting different types of lube because my past experiences of it with an ex is it was honestly painful, but I thought it was due to not having lube. Eveb after getting those different types and flavors of lube... Im still afraid of the pain or possibility of it.

So recently we were having sex and we had used lube but not to toot my bf's horn , but he is well endowed... Anyways during missionary during the strokes he went in then out then I guess either slipped in or well... His d*ck went in my asshole and It was painful as hell..i screamed then froze and cried... Now I honestly don't know what exactly we could use for anal because I want us to both experience it with each other..