Would you confront your man for broken financial promises
I have a new boyfriend, who I think sold me a dream financially. Before we got together, he told me he would provide for me and even went to the extreme to say I can quit my job. he told me he had brought me Christmas presents and lots of gifts, he told me to book off a day from work as he booked us a hotel and romantic night, he told me he would take me on all these vacations, he told me he would send me money blah blah, and he hasn’t. I’m not one of these women that would quit their job or expect any of this, I’m
Humble and I provide everything for my self. But I feel abit annoyed, for example he still hasn’t given me any gifts for Christmas lol, I booked the day off work for the hotel surprise date night and he’s completely ‘ forgotten’ and I think he thinks I have too, he’s never sent me money ect… like don’t get me wrong he’s paid for dinner and stuff but like nothing else and I have clocked on that he isn’t that well of financially. On the day he asked for my number he sent me flowers, he then love bombed me for 3 weeks and sold me a dream financially for the rest and 2 months later I’m in a relationship and he’s not kept any of his promises, I’m not bothered about them apart from the hotel. I was really excited, told all my girls and got excited and booked the day and night of work and he’s completely just forgot about it and I feel hurt and embarrassed. I was with someone for 8 years who never made effort, and I’m new in to this one of 2 months, it’s not the money it’s self it’s just the empty promises or the point. my question is, should I ask him what happened to our surprise date night? I don’t want to seem like a bitch but it really hurt my feelings.
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