Anal sex?..

Question

I need some kind of advice.

my SO has been bothering me for the longest time about having anal sex. I've honestly thought about it, he has stuck his finger in my bum quite a few times during sex or foreplay and I do enjoy it a lot more than I thought it would but I feel like having his penis in there is far different than having his finger in there and it scares me a little bit. I understand that there is some kind of preparation that is necessary for all this, but can anyone that's actually experienced anal sex give me so tips or directions on what is the best and least painful way to actually enjoy having anal sex.

please give me your best honest advice, I'm actually going to take everything you all say into careful consideration.

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Honestly, I'm 25 and never had anal sex until literally last night I tried it for the very first time with my Other, we've been together (On& off) for 2-1/2 years almost 3.. but he was jammed up for a lot of the time.. anyways, I made a promise to myself when I was younger to keep my anal virginity until marriage.. so I could give something pure to my husband.. any hoo So I told my boyfriend this, and he was Ok with it.. so anyways 1 1/2year later he violated parole and got locked up and sent upstate for 6months.. well 2weeks after he got relocked up,the day after last Christmas I took a pregnancy test jus for shits and giggles bc I got so nauseous drinking my wine on christmas, sure enough it came back POSITIVE!! So I went did the hole pregnancy by myself, anyways he got out when I was 6months pregnant, and has been doing Great this time! He keeps asking me or bringing up us getting married, bc I gave my daughter his last name.. and he wants Us to get married like YESTERDAY, but I'm hesitant bc he's gotten locked up 3-4x's within our 3yr relationship. Anyways so last night I was drinking n just got over my first period since I gave birth and have been BEYOND HORNY AS FUCK! So we were fooling around, and he brought up sticking it in my booty and i said Ok I'll try it (Ha-ha-ha) I was kidding though.. but he got so excited and happy that I was willing to give him a part of me Nobody has gotten before..so I took one for the team💪🏼 lol and surprisingly it didn't hurt, we definitely foreplayed and your booty n his cock has to be moist (lub or spit) and when he first enters TELL HIM SLOOOW! but girlllll, once u get the hole thing out and get use to the different/New feeling it oddly becomes pleasurable 😊😄 hope I helped ya 😀❣️Good luck chicka!

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I love anal sex it can be amazing if done correctly, take it slow, have your husband start with some thing small (like his finger) and use as much lube as needed. Don't put his penis in all at once or it may hurt, slowly slide in the tip, again using a lot of lube, then when you feel comfortable slide it in further. Try to relax or your muscles will tense which may cause some pain for you and your SO. x

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When I was able to do anal all the way it was the best orgasma I have ever had.

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I've had anal sex for a long time and it is very enjoyable, but for your first time here are some tips 
1. Foreplay is essential, if you are not already turned on and he starts probing you with his fingers in your ass, you most likely will not enjoy it.
2. Lube and time is key. Make sure your partner knows that it will take time to loosen you up during foreplay and turn you on enough to be ready for him to insert himself. "The slower he inserts the first time, the more you will enjoy" 
3. Douching isn't completely necessary everytime, I usually do not. But if you are worried about any messes or embarrassment I do recommend, "1-2 hours before hand"
4. Be comfortable and ready: you do not necessarily need to wait for your partner to try. If you try on your own you make feel more comfortable and confident with your partner

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Behymen was taken when I was 14, it was so terrifying lol. We were having sex and then all of a sudden he wanted me to bend over the bed, while he was standing off of the bed and he put the tip in and I fell to the ground bawling my eyes out 🙈 I didn't do that again for about 3 years😂 Be careful, it will hurt like hell.

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I just did it for the first time with my hubs last week. Started prepping myself mentally by using a rounded cone lookin butt plug in the bathtub and practiced relaxing my muscles so I wouldn't freak out. Did that for like 25 minutes lol then went and slathered coconut oil all over my bum hole. I layed flat on my tummy with my legs together and hubs was on top. Just do it very slowly!!! Too fast will be too painful. Tell him to stop if it hurts, sometimes the in/out motion is uncomfortable. It just felt like a bigger finger! Nothing tore or bled. Preparation and lube are essential!! It was actually enjoyable and I'd do it again. Stimulating your clitoris also helps "distract" from the big thing invading your booty lol good luck!

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