Hubby and I have been together for 21 years married for 12, we’re both 35 years old. I’ve noticed over the last 10 years or so he is just not affectionate at all really anymore. He does not initiate anything when it comes to being intimate It’s always me, he seems to have a big issue with holding my hand, He does not like to stand next to me or sit next to me when we’re at functions. I just don’t get it. It just slowly seem to go away along with gift giving he has not given me a gift in about 8 years and I make sure he has gifts for Father’s Day, his birthday and Christmas, Usually they say they’re from the kids, but I get nothing and I’m just sick and tired of feeling like I’m nothing to him.

Yeah, I’ve talked to him about it plenty of times seems to go in one ear and out the other and I have brought things up for us to do just him and I and seems like a big issue to him. Especially sex when I try to initiate it or do anything all he does is complain and make it sound like it’s a big ass chore to have sex with his wife.