When me and my SO have sex he always finishes first and then he hands me the vibrator and tells me to finish off myself. He gets tired after sex but it still hurts me and I don't feel special. I love him and I'm sure he doesn't mean it in that sense. But what can I say to him to make him understand. I don't quite know what words to put it in. But I won't leave him because he makes me happy in every other way possible. I just want to sort out this one problem. 

Help??