Losing your virginity?

Question

So I'm a virgin, or I was until a few days ago(..?) But I'm kind of a little confused. I'm a tinier girl, about 5'7" and 115 lbs, so I'd assume I'm on the tighter side? And I've heard that having sex can hurt the first time if you're smaller. So I expected that. But he literally couldn't even get halfway inside me before I told him to stop. It hurt so bad I couldn't take it. And it's not like he's huge either. Is there anything that I could do about that? Like, I'm just generally confused. 
Also, I noticed the next night that there was blood coming out of my vagina. It was like a bright red color, so it wasn't my period or anything. Plus, I'm no where near that time of the month. And I know there's a possibility of my hymen breaking, but I thought that had happened a couple months ago when he had fingered me a little to hard.. Is there any other explanation as to what that could be..? I'm just a little concerned.

Answer

How skinny or fat you are has nothing to do with how tight or loose your vagina is.

Answer

Sometimes if you're getting fingered a little on the rougher side you could have gotten scratched on the inside of your vagina, and that could've been the blood before. You probably are bleeding now from a broken hymen, also if penetration continues to hurt you may have a normal tighter vagina. I have a friend who's vagina is so tight that she can't even use tampons. It runs in her family. So that may be something to see your doctor about (everyone should visit a gynecologist after you begin having sex). But anyway if you are just the normal tightness it may hurt a couple of times when having sex. Make sure you are completely ready to have sex. Simply put, make sure you're really wet and fired up. Hope this helps a little bit! Best of luck!

Losing your virginity?

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