I enjoy my sex life with my boyfriend, we have sex whenever we see each other (he lives in a different city) I have a really high sex drive and when he's not around I'll use my vibrator on myself, he seems to enjoy when I play with myself during sex without one but says sex toys don't seem to want to use one when we have sex together (I mean using them on me not him)..... I've personally never met a bloke that doesn't want to use them on a girl and was just wondering everyone else's thoughts on this??? Is he too shy because he's never done it??? Or really doesn't get off on the idea of using one??? I know it's not a big deal and I'm happy to not have them in our sex life together it's just surprised me and I was curious if anyone else has experienced this?