Two years living together, been TTC for 13 months wedding is booked, I have my wedding dress! He left the house and never came back didn’t have an argument he just left and without speaking to me, he sent the police round for his clothes 😭 I’m heartbroken!

He said he needs to take some time out for himself but why does he get a brake from family life! We have commitments! Rent bills etc, he asked my 11 yo if he could adopt her and has been her dad for two years! We had it all planned we was happy 😭

He said he wants to sort things out but dely the wedding and having a baby like he wants to take that commitment back or something 😭

I’m a complete mess, he’s 28 how can he run back to his mums when he has a family at home 😭

He’s always felt strongly about having a baby, I suggested waiting until after the wedding once and he said no way!

I just don’t know what to do with myself

I feel abandoned 😭

How can he make these commitments and then just leave for no reason, he says he’s depressed but he showed no signs of this also why couldn’t he talk to me!

Has anyone else gone through this before? I feel lost!