Does it get any easier

Question

I have been trying to conceive now for seventeen months. Aunt flo came today. I've stopped expecting it not to come now but once a month I have a complete breakdown where I cant eat and I cry uncontrollably I just want to stay in bed. 
It feels like no one else understands but my heart breaks every single month. I have only ever wanted to be a mum and now every month I face the prospect of that not happening. We don't qualify for IVF on the NHS in the area we live in the UK and I am not sure how we will fund it privately. 
I just want the pain to stop. 
Anyone else going through this able to tell me when it gets easier? 
Thanks in advance

Answer

You are certainly not alone. I’ve been in your shoes and felt exactly the same. The month that I gave up & felt completely helpless is the month I got pregnant with my little miracle who is 22 months now. I’m here if you want to talk to someone. One thing my gynae recommended as we are trying for no2 is to take pregnancy vitamins to improve egg quality & even suggested a vitamin for my husband but he’s not keen on that. We also trying Clomid this month. Stay strong.

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I have my moments, this morning was one of them. I cried for a minute or two and pulled myself together. It’s not easy and it’s challenged our marriage a ton! It still does, but we do it together and we communicate every single feeling or thought.

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Have you had any testing done?

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It eventually got easier for me, when we gave up trying. It was a very hard road, and I ended up going to therapy to help, but things are okay now. Best of luck. 🤍

Does it get any easier

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