How do I handle this?
So I just found out I’m pregnant with my 5th baby… I didn’t tell anyone at my job and don’t plan too but my one “friend” she’s in her late 40’s and I’m in the early 20’s but after I told her things kinda got weird “vibe wise” I just brushed it off as maybe just me being sensitive since I’m pregnant. Well one day I came in and I was having this very weird cramping and I happened to just say something to her and she said “you need to go to the er and get a D&C you know what that pain is…means your losing the baby” I looked at her like what?? It made me freak out because how could someone say such a thing..she said she didn’t go to medical school for nothing…but she’s working as a representative and not in a medical environment…so long story short I went in my hcg levels jumped a huge amount between 1st hcg and 2nd hcg check and they had found a second sac and so I told her everything was good and had brought up that it was twins! (Explains the cramping I guess..) but she sat there and kept insisting that I was losing my babies… but once I told her about the cramping she began to also make my job a lot harder as she works for me eg. By denying my clients who walk in for services, and making me do all her front desk work) I really don’t know exactly what to do about this situation… it’s close to Christmas and I don’t want to cause issues and have anyone fired but I’m really unsure of what came over her to say these things or if maybe she’s just having a bad week..i don’t know..
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