opinions please!!

So my darling fiancé thought it was okay to be sending random girls and girls that we both knew filthy messages and pictures behind my back whilst I was pregnant and for over a year! All in the past now but I'm in desperate need of breast reduction and I know I won't be able to afford it for a fair few years, he knows how much my breasts effect me but he's decided to throw a wobbly because I mentioned that you can set up a page and people will find your surgery, but because pictures are involved (of just the breasts, not my face or name) he's gone off on one, do you think he's being fair?