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2 failed IVF transfers

I just feel so defeated and devastated. Like there is something wrong with me. My husband and I are about to be 27. Both healthy. We had 8 great looking embryos. But two transfers have failed to stick. We have decided to PGS the remaining 6. Hoping that comes back with good results. I don't care if I have twins or If we have one now or one later. I just want to have a family. 
I hate that people who don't eve try and don't want kids can accidentally get pregnant and sit around bitching and moaning that this isn't what they wanted. Meanwhile ladies like us sit here wondering if our time will ever come to make that announcement and throw a shower and hold that perfect little miracle in your arms ❤
Sometimes I think I am asking too much from life to be a mom 
😢
Ky
Posted at Feb 14, 2017 • 31 responses

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Posted at Feb 22, 2017
i just had two ivf cycles fail... in the space of 3 months! valentina day was my birthday and when i found out this round failed too
november 29 two top embryos were put back, neither implanted
so i went to a specialist clinic abroad and they transfered 5 pgd tested embryos!!! 5!!! 3 boys and 2 girls... and again, nothing stuck 
 
i feel so useless so old so faulty - why does my toxic body destroy all these embryos? 
St
Posted at Feb 22, 2017
I completely understand where ur coming from. I had same thing happen last year we had two failed ivf's. so we are trying another time but with different doctor and different protocol, start meds this Friday. And we are having pgs testing done this time since we just learned of this with the new doctor. Hoping for the best!! Good luck with ur journey, and keep the faith even though I know how hard it can be. I am in agreement with u for those who don't have problems sit around complaining and don't realize what a blessing they have to be able to have a child on their own with no problems. It's very very frustrating to say the least 
Praying u get ur miracle soon 😊
Ke
Posted at Feb 22, 2017
I feel your pain.
I'm 26 and just about to start first go of IVF, after waiting 5 years for a baby that just wouldn't come. Every day I hear of someone that's just found out there pregnant and it's heartbreaking. 
I know myself it's easier said then done but don't give up. ❤️
As
Posted at Feb 18, 2017
You sound just like me to the T. I hope everything works out ;) 
Our time will come... I'll just live through you
As
Posted at Feb 15, 2017
I hope your PGS results are good! When do you find out?
 I was so disappointed that even with PGS testing, my first transfer failed. I'm wondering if it's something wrong with me that prevented implantation. I am so scared our next transfer with our last frozen embryo will fail as well and we will have to do everything (and pay for everything 💵) all over again. 
Ta:  Thanks ladies - been a long journey of TTC. The sad part is we're both healthy and the 'infertility' is because DH's vasectomy reversals caused scar tissue blockage.
M:  I'm so sorry Tamsyn. Starting all over is rough, but hopefully worth it in the end.
M:  That's a tough decision Kylie. I'm sure you feel like you don't want to waste time, but it's hard to move forward without answers. I'm sure whatever you decide will be the best for you! I hope the next few weeks go by fast and you get your results soon!
Je
Posted at Feb 19, 2017
Sending you so much hope and lots of hugs. It took us four ivf attempts including three egg retrievals and two miscarriages. I don't know what finally worked this time. I added acupuncture and the acupuncturist recommended herbs, moxa sticks, cutting back on exercise, and a no dairy, no sugar and no gluten diet. I found a therapist so I could complain as much as I wanted without feeling like I was bringing others down. Maybe that did it. I don't know. But I know how emotionally draining and frustrating and sad it can be. I hope you get good news very soon. 
As
Posted at Feb 21, 2017
I totally feel ya girl! I've just had my 3rd failed transfer and I'm completely lost at what to do next. Its such a kick in the teeth. We are going to look into PGS testing and also a uterine biopsy, to check to see if its receptive at the right time. Maybe you could look into that? I hope this year is successful for both of us and everyone else struggling! Best of luck 💕
R
Posted at Feb 21, 2017
Kylie, I feel the same way 😢 one fresh and one FET, both stuck but ended up in miscarriages, 6 and 8 weeks. I feel so defeated and hopeless, all of my friends now have 2 or more kids already. It's too easy to give up though, so everyday I force myself to stay hopeful and positive, because everybody seems to say that we gotta have positive vibe to conceive. Not easy, but not optional. I'm prepping for my next FET in March now, I hope this cycle I will get thick lining (been suffering from thin lining for months after my last miscarriage that ended up in d&c). Let's continue to have faith and do whatever it takes to be positive, we will have kids soon ❤
La
Posted at Feb 22, 2017
I know it's hard to keep having faith but I promise you the right rainbow for you will stick and you welcome that miracle into your arms. This is my first round of IVF so I can't imagine your pain. But I know this much to be true your baby is coming just have to put the right one in there that Was meant for you. Hugs and prayers for you. 
Al
Posted at Feb 22, 2017
I know the feeling of not getting pregnant and wanting that baby to hold so bad! I've been wanting a baby so bad since my early 20s and I'm 36 now with no baby yet of my own. I married almost 2 years ago to a man from England and we got married here in RI. I'm a step-mother to two beautiful little girls 11 and almost 9 yrs old. And you know it's not the same as having your own baby. But I love them like they're my very own. Love them little girls so much! I pray you have that baby you've been hoping and praying for. God Bless you on your baby journey! I wish the best for you and your hubby! Bless you both!! ❤

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