SO before my s.o. and i were together he was 'polyamorous' (sp?) with past girlfriends, meaning he had open relationships. I gave him the ultimatum and said he was either with me or not because as open minded as I am, a relationship is a relationship and I don't need to be somebody's willing side hoe. Regardless, he agreed and we've been together for about 2 months. He still stays in contactwith the other girls and i am not one to forbid somebody from communication with others, but skeptical me went through his phone and the one girl who was most devestated about his commitment to me messaged him saying things like "its so hard for me to keep my hands off of you." They have hung out and after they did one of the messages was about all of the of the hickies she just cant get rid of and blah blah. ive never been the crazy type but i had enough and they got to me. he swears it was another guy and she was venting but i just cant believe him.... i kicked him out of my apartment at 2 a.m. and am not sure how to handle it honestly. we have both been cheated on in the past and he accused me of being unfaithful for even invading his privacy or finding a reason to. personally i may love him but maybe it was doomed from the start?? im stuck.... this is too much of unusual circumstances for me to have faith that ill ever nnot be skeptical of his actions just based on his moral beliefs... ladies please help. i promise im not normally this moronic and its killing me to deal with.. i do love him but i just dont know id its worth it in my opinion. i knowhis beliefs wont change amd im not one to force change on people not seeking it, but i cant even tell anymore if he is or not. im just lost.... help p.s. he is currently on my couch bc he refused to leave in the middle of the night so confrontation is approaching and im searching for an answer