Low libido due to anxiety...but were married


My husband and I got married in November 2018. We have been together for 5 years though and were having sex before we got married. My anxiety got so bad after a condom broke about 3 years ago, that I somehow stopped myself from being turned on so I wont worry. I want to have a higher libido though and I dont worry as much anymore. We always have protected sex with a condom and he pulls out with it on. I dont want to get bc because of the effects it has on me hormone wise. Were fine with using condoms still, I just want to have sex with my husband without turning him away due to me worrying. Any suggestions?