I know where you are.
The title seems really creepy but just hear me out. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost 22 months (okay 21 and 1/2 months to be exact) and I just wanted to let you ladies know I understand. Sometimes I look at comments "we've been trying to conceive for 3 months" and I'm so heartbroken and I just think about how 3 months is nothing, how long I've been trying but then I stop myself. I go back and I remember what it was really like, the pain and worry at 3 months isn't much different from the pain and worry I have today. In fact I might argue that, for myself at least, the pain andn the worry is slightly smaller today than it was a year or almost 2 years ago. My expectations are much lower and I have almost no hope left, we're looking at <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a> and <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> very soon.. after that probably nothing. I know what my future will likely hold, I've done almost all I can do but you ladies are still starting out and there are so many questions you don't have answered. That anxiety is incredibly difficult and you fear being in my shoes one day (I hope you never are) so I wanted to reach out and just say I know where you are, I know how you feel. I hope you're alright and I'm hoping for your bfp too!