How long should I wait before getting in another relationship?


Some backstory: I was with my ex for nearly 2 years and in that time we got engaged. Honestly he was pretty bad throughout the entire relationship. I found out he had been cheating for most of the relationship, but after finding out he had cheated with a mutual friend before the summer. After a summer of uncovering more cheating, giving him more chances, and practically begging him to be loyal, we split. And he was terrible to me all the way to the end, and for weeks after.

That being said, it’s been 3 months since we split and I moved out. I haven’t really been interested in an actual relationship at all. But I’ve started to grow feelings for a person in my life, and I don’t know where it is leading. I don’t know if I should let it or if I should cut it off.

I know there is technically no “right amount of time,” but do you personally think 3 months is too short? Too long? Does it matter?