Chemical pregnancy

Laura

So far this year I've had 3 chemical pregnancies back to back (currently experiencing my 4th) 😔

I am so emotionally exhausted, I don't understand why this is happening and what I am doing wrong? 😭

My doctor has brushed me off because chemical pregnancies are "extremely common" (which I am aware of but nevertheless, its still a painful experience whether you've had 1 or 100, its still a loss) and the classic "you should really lose some weight"

😲 excuse me!

I am 33 years old, 5"5" and about 74kg, hardly obese. And even if that is a contributing factor... Why not have a little compassion?

Sorry for ranting, I just feel so let down and lost right now. I know I won't be alone, which is why I have come to this community.

Has anyone else had something similar happen to them, then went on to have a successful health pregnancy?

I already have two children, so I know I am able to successfully carry, which makes this all so much more confusing.

And please note before anyone says it, I am truly grateful for my two precious boys, I am blessed beyond my wildest dreams to have them, I know that I am just desperately sad looking for reassurance. 😔