Sex Toys!

How does your bf feel about you using sex toys while the two of you are having sex? I feel like it makes my bf feel like less of a man. I haven't been able to orgasm lately, so I brought up the idea of us using a vibrator to help me get there lol. He said he feels it's only for women who are single, but he's willing to try it with me if it's going to make me happy. Would your SO let you use a sex toy during sex?