boyfriend does not like sex...

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So most days it does not bother me. But my boyfriend does not really care about sex. Some women would be down but I do like sex. I don't need it everyday , but I feel like when we do have sex , it's a chore for him. He even jokes about that sometimes. I want to be respectful to him and not push it on him if he doesn't want it. I take it personally sometimes. Does anyone else deal with this? How do you handle it? Any tips to maybe make him want it? :) Also to be clear this is not a make it or break it deal. Sex isn't everything to me , but I sure do enjoy it.😂