Ok I’m in love with my boss

So.. I have a partner of 8 years, and I’m

Truly happy with him but recently I’ve noticed that I have feeling for my boss!

I work as a bouncer and I am a female of 25 years old, he is 50 but looks around 35+ and he’s attractive because he knows how to speak to you and and just so hot I’m so many ways!

I’ve had dreams about him and I having sex and how rough he would be... I don’t want to tell him or anything but how do I get these thoughts out of my head???