how to be a bad bitch???

i don't have many clothes. don't wear make up (cant do make up either) and my skin is shitty. my ass is FLAT! I don't wear weaves and idk how to do hair. I've watched hella youtube tutorials but i just suck. im badly built (body)

but i want to be pretty. my husband doesn't look at me the same and no matter how hard i try, i just don't feel pretty. any tips anyone pls!!!! i greatly appreciate it.