What's with men and porn???? Long post

I mean, I have nooo issues with my man watching porn if I'm not around/not in the mood. Or maybe he's bored and wantsto get off. I dont care nor mind.

But I've asked him hat type he watches etc..he says he hasnt watched porn in months. Ok...he's prett busy so I believed him. Because who lies aout watching porn, right?

Anyway, I've told him if he wants we can make a video or I can send him pics. Whatever he wants. He kinda just shrugs it off and says he wont have time to watch any. We have sex maybe 2x a week and he only cums 1x for the week...which i find strange but back when we had sex 5x a week he only came 2 or 3x a week so again....didn't think anything of it.

My phone died one night and I decided to use his phone, since he never has issues with me using it even if he's asleep. I decided to look at his browsing history, because he said he wanted to ask his parents for some stuff for Christmas that he saw online, so I wanted to surprise him with an extra gift. Instead, i got the surprise.

This man watched porn yesterday, when I asked for sex and he was "too tired" yet he watched 5 pornos???

He watches it at 1am, 6am when he's supposed to be at work, 2pm after work but he's not home so no idea where he's watching this.

I'm so hurt by this. He knows I have no issues if he wants to watch porn. I'm not his mom that I'll tell him no. But we've been having such shitty sex this past month ad according to his browser, it's been a month he's been watching up to 15 porn videos every other day. I've tried to spice things up, asked him what kind of things did he use to search up, maybe we can try something. He says no nothing. All his searches are Milfs or dark skinned women, big booties, lesbian (i expected this), and a lot of cheating videos.

As soon as I found out I confronted him about it. He was sleeping and I woke him up, he said it's notna big deal it's porn. I agree yet he's letting this affect our sex life???

What should I do? I didn't think men got so defensve about porn.