What do I do?

My husband and i have been together since we were 13 yrs old and wet both just turned 32 yrs old this month and wet have 2 kids together……. Our relationship is FAR from perfect, but over the last 7-8 years I’ve just haven’t felt right in the relationship out arguments are bad cuz of him and his drinking all the time and he gets angry over nothing and his angriness is bad lots of screaming, yelling, name calling too me and something him putting his hands on me so my feelings for him has changed a lot like i gave love for him but I’m not in love with him anytime and i don’t know what do to i have no place to go, no money, nothing as I’m a stay at home mom to our 2 kids who are in school full time, I had a job once and that was hell he would tell me to take at the VTO’s so i wasn’t there with other guys and he knew when VTO’s were given cuz he worked there too on other days. I want to know what a loving caring relationship feels like without feeling like anything i do will be hard and worried i will get yelled at about it.

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G.

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And this is exactly why government assistance exists, to give women in bed situations options. Set up your game plan, contact welfare, social services, whatever you have in your area, you are entitled to section 8, transitional housing, food stamps, welfare, TANF which is temporary assistance for needy families, state funded daycare, financial aid for college, Obama cell phone, Biden whatever, if you don’t have a vehicle get on the list at Salvation Army. Catholic charities is great for energy assistance, mental therapy, rental assistance, shelter, clothing, same thing with churches, food pantry, mental therapy, probably can find some babysitters, And they usually have items they are no longer using from furniture, baby items, clothing, and what you can’t find there, Goodwill, Facebook marketplace, etc. on with the holidays coming, every company has either giving tree, toys for tots, some kind of organization to help with the toys for the holidays, giving tree is great you give them your Christmas list, they do the shopping for you. Set up your game plan and get out of there.

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If i were you I would look at domestic violence groups or womens shelters and just talk to them about how u can get on your feet and strategize and exit to this situation.

Mr

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You leave. That’s what you do.

Be

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You need to leave.