If you found out your 19 year old daughter woke up to your husband(he isn't her biological father) having sex with her and he apologized and said he would go get help for falling into temptation, who would you make leave the house while he's getting help. Adult daughter, who has friends, and her older brother she could live with, or your husband who has no one and would have nowhere. I know this is a hard situation and people will probably judge me. My daughter is fine. We've talked. He's apologized to her and she's agreed not to report him but I obviously can't have the in the same house while he's getting help. On one hand she's my daughter, on the other she has places to go and my husband doesn't and kicking him out feels wrong. Don't comment anything rude. If you have something rude to say, just vote and then leave my post