Is it time or do i keep trying?

Posting anonymously because i'm not sure if anyone i know is on here. So... I've been with my partner for 2 years, we've had a lot of problems, but i love him. But the problem that i've been having for quite a while now, is that i feel like i want more in life and he doesn't. All we do is sleep, eat, drink, play video games, repeat. I want to do things with my life, but every time he either says he will one day, or says he doesn't want to. Now, the reason why i can't do any of the things i want to do by myself (and is probably what everyone will say the problem is), is that he doesn't let me go anywhere without him, can'tmake phone calls unless he approves, and he needs constant updates on what every text is about even with my family. Should i leave?

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Yes leave him. Hes controlling. No relationship should be that way. You should be able to enjoy the things you like freely! You should be able to have fun in your relationship! Yall dont go on any dates? Just stay inside? I feel so sorry for u & i hope you find the strength to leave!

vi

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Don’t let another 2 years pass and have all these regrets about leaving sooner. You deserve to be with someone with ambition who want to advance if thats what you desire too

Ja

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Yes.

Ja

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Yes you should leave. He’s controlling and it gets worse with time

le

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Leave as soon as possible. He will ruin your life.

A

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im hoping this is a troll. leave him and get some therapy girl. this shouldn’t even be a question in your mind. he’s lazy and literally has you on lockdown. you should never think that’s okay .

In

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Live to accomplish your dreams don’t let anyone prevent you from Doing so . Don’t feel like the villain because you’re putting yourself first. SELF LOVE IS THE BEST AND THE REALEST LOVE YOU’LL EVER EXPERIENCE. He seems insecure and complacent don’t waste your energy with someone who doesn’t support your success!

Na

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Yes, leave him. I went through similar and it damaged me